Friends with benefits

05May10

I have a guy friend who has, for years, been a perfect friend with benefits. When we both happen to be single we tend to mess around, when one of us is seeing someone we don’t and remain friends without benefits. There have honestly never been any jealousy issues or hard feelings, which I wouldn’t believe was possible if I wasn’t in the situation. Sooo. Here’s the thing. We currently live in different cities. I happened to be visiting his city for work and we got together. We had sex right away and then decided to go to dinner. As we were getting dressed for dinner he said “so, I guess this would be a good time to tell you I’m seeing someone. So this particular incident should be on the down low.” We have never selpt together when one of us was dating someone else and I feel sort of shitty that he implicated me in his cheating. But only sort of. Honestly when he told me I laughed and we went to dinner and had a great time. I guess I just feel like I SHOULD feel bad, and be mad at him for this one. But I don’t. Am I being a shitty person? Or am I letting him take advantage of me? Should I be feeling something more than “whatever” about this? -Maya, 24.

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1 happylifehappywife on May 5, 2010 said:

How would you feel if your boyfriend had a “friend with benefits” and cheated on you? You should feel bad! While it was ultimately his wrong-doing because he didn’t tell you about her until after the fact, you should make sure you don’t ever sleep with him again when he’s in a relationship. Plus, if he’s cheating on her with you, he’s probably also cheating on her with other girls. I’d make him get tested LOL

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